in labour part 1

Pagi ni, teringat muke irdina masa 1st time mama tgk dia lepas keluar
dari perut mama. Hee. Kecik je masa tu. So, tiba2 rasa nk menulis la
apa yg mama ingat saat2 kelahiran farzana irdina. Hee. It's gonna be a
long entry. Since in labour punya entry kan..almaklumla. hahaha. So,
bare with it ye utk sesiapa yg nak membaca =p

19/10/2011
Patutnya irdina dijadualkan keluar arini. Tapi takda apa2 tanda pun yg
menunjukkan irdina nak keluar dari perut mama. Hmm.kalau tak keluar
lagi, kena g klinik lagi 20hb. Nak cek lg. huu. Adakah irdina nak
dilahirkan pada tarikh yg cantik? 20102011? Mungkin kah? Hee

20/10/11
mama dgn slumber je g klinik. Cek-cek, kononnya low liquor (air
ketuban kurang) tak sampai 8cm. doctor kata kena g spital sbb kena
induce, air ketuban dah sikit sgt. Mama call abah, bgtau doctor nak
induce. Abah dah decide nak balik. Takut irdina keluar, takda orang
nak teman mama dalam labour room.
G spital. Doctor wat routine check. Macam2 soalan doc tanya. Wat ECG,
baby okay. Sbb mama ingat irdina nak keluar tarikh cantik, mama tanya
kat doc, bleh induce arini terus ke? Doc kata: tak. Sbb biasanya kite
induce kul 6am dgn kul 2pm. Sbb taknak emergency labour and takda doc.
Time tu dah kul 12tghari. Haih..takdapat la nak keluar tarikh cantik.
Hee. Call abah irdina and dia decide nak balik jugak. Yela, kalau
betul mama nak kena induce..ishk2. takdapat bayangkan nak bersalin
tanpa en.suami disisi. Huk2.
Petang tu, doc kat wad scan skali lagi untuk cek, betul ke low liquor.
Cek2 okay jelah pulak. So, takpayah induce. Haih..bila la irdina nak
keluar nih? Bila kat dalam wad, mama dpt tahu kalau husband nak teman
kena attend ceramah rakan suami. Ooo. Ada hikmah juga irdina belum nak
keluar lagi. Hee. Esok kena attend ceramah la. Esok jugak mama keluar
wad. Taknak tunggu la kalau takda tanda2 nak bersalin. Masa kat wad pn
mama tak tahu nak buat apa. Sakit pun tak. Relaks je anak mama dalam
perut. Mama duk ronda dalam wad kunun nak bagi sakit. Hm, sakit kejap,
pastu ilang. Orang asyik tgk je bila mama jejalan.huu. segan i..

21/10/11
Malam tadi ada rasa sakit. Tapi sakit tu hilang..10 min contraction,
then ilang..haih. taknak keluar lagi la anak mama nih. Lepas ceramah,
petang tu, mama discaj. Kena pegi hospital balik 27hb. Kalau belum
keluar sebelum smpai temujanji, mama kena induce la. Paksa keluar la
anak mama nih. Doc plak banyak kali tanya, sure ke lmp nih? Mama sure
la..huhu.i record ok!

27/12/11
Kesian en.suami sbb dah cuti 1miggu sbb standby. Takut mama
terberanak. Hee. Ada gak ckp kat en.suami. frust jugak sbb tak dapat
rasa sakit bersalin yg datang sendri. En. Suami cakap, ape2 pun, mana2
pun, tetap sakit. And baby tetap kena keluar jugak. Sampai bila nak
eram. Hee. Ada betul jugak. Huu. Tapi mama cuma berharap, dapatla
bersalin normal. Huu. Tarikh ni, kena masuk wad. So, prepare segala
keperluan. Siap bawak buku cerita sebab tahu, sure akan bosan. Hee.
Sampai di labour rom, doc wat ve. Alahai, baru 0.5- 1cm (serupa je
macam tak buka langsung). Tak padan dengan sakit gara2 VE. Huk2. Masuk
wad, rehat jela, sbb tak akan induce arini pun. Cuma wat ECG je utk
monitor jantung irdina. Yg paling kelakar. Time buat ECG tu, irdina
boleh tidur plak dalam perut mama. Hee. Serupa macam mama je, nak
tidur je kalau takda buat apa2. Hahaha.
Malam, doc plak wat ECG, ada acceleration ntah ape2 (mama pun tak
faham sgt). Tp doc kata, kalau jantung baby tak stable, tak boleh nak
induce. Ya ALLAH,mama cuma harap irdina baik2 saja dalam perut mama.
And mama doa yg terbaik. Amin! Akhirnya, ECG ok, and doc kata
insyaALLAH bleh proceed. Alhamdulillah…

28/10/2011
Pagi, kul 4 pagi, nurse dah kejut nak wat ECG. Kalau jantung baby okay
lpas dimonitor selama 1 jam, bleh la masuk ubat prostin namanya.
Induce ni, untuk datangkan rasa sakit nak bersalin tuh. Sbb, bila ada
contraction, barula ada pintu rahim akan keluar and body start
acknowledge yg dah tiba masa ye baby tu nak keluar. Irdina, dah2 la tu
duduk dalam perut mama.huu.

ECG ok, so, doc masukan ubat. Mcm smlm jugak, hasil VE Cuma 0.50-1cm.
tp kali ni, doc buat tak sakit sgt pun mcm doc kat labour room tu
buat. Hmm. Lain tangan lain skill agaknya. Huu. (kpd doc2 ni, buat la
VE dgn lemah lembut ye? Sakit tau..huk2)
Lepas masuk prostin.tak boleh weewee, mama solat. And rehat kat katil.
Sejam lepas masuk prostin. Wat ECG. And mama dah start rasa sakit.
Tapi boleh tahan lagi. Hmm. Dah lupa dah macam mana rasa sakit lepas
1st prostin nih. Sure sbb tak sakit sgt. Hahaha. Dalam kul 10 ke 11
camtu. Still takda tanda mama akan bersalin. So, kiranya 1st prostin
ni, menemui jalan buntu. Fail! Ngee. So, doc plan utk 2nd prostin,
jam 2ptg nanti. Hmm..harap2 jalan la yg 2nd prostin ni..mama nak
bersalin normal. Huu. Amin!!

Kul 2-2.30 petang, masuk 2nd prostin. Okay je..sbb dah tahu, sure akan
sakit due to VE and berbagai2. Huu. Relaks je..sejam lepas tu, dah
start rasa sakit. Ok, start counting for the frequency of contraction.
Hmm. 1x dlm 10 min. hmm. Okay. Wat aktiviti mcm biasa..g solat. Ronda
wad. Tido. Hee. Kul 6ptg. Rasa sakit yg amat. Kat wad dah start hidang
dinner. Tak lalu nak makan, sbb rasa sakit yg amat. Huk2. Dok tunggu
mak abah and en.suami datang untuk mengadu rasa sakit. Rasa2nya masa
tu, contraction dah rasa 3 min skali. Huu. Tak tahan dah nih. Betul ke
nih rasa sakit nak bersalin? Hmm. Yela kot. Kalau tak, ape lg kan?
Hee. Bila mak abah and en.suami sampai, terus ngadu sakit. So, ckp kat
nurse. "Ok. Kite cek jalan ye? Nti kitorang cari doctor.." . heh!
Doctor takda ke time ni? Lama gak tunggu diorang cari doc. Ada stgh
jam kot. Huu.
"doc dah ada, adik masuk dalam bilik rawatan ye?" aduh. Jauh tu nak
berjalan ke bilik rawatan (exaggerate je..sbb bilik rawatan tu dlm wad
tu je. Hee). Tak boleh ke diorang buat VE kat katil patient je? Kan
senang. Hee. Tp bila mama teringat, mse klas antenatal dlu ada pesan,
selagi bleh jalan, jalan, sbb gravity will help to let the baby down.
So, mama gagah kan diri untuk bangun and jalan ke bilik rawatan. Tu
pun, en.suami yg pimpin. Sangat kemas memegang tangan en. Suami.
Sampai kat depan kaunter nurse, sakit teramat sampai mengalir airmata.
Berhenti sekejap. Nurse tanya, " boleh ke? Awak nk wheel chair?"
"takpe2. Saya boleh lagi nih." Tunjuk kuat. Padahal time tu, dah rasa
nk merenggek je sbb sakit yg amat. And rasa nak peluk en.suami n minta
tolong ilangkan rasa sakit nih..huk2
Masa nak buat VE, alamak, doc lelaki la (sepanjang mama kat wad, tak
pernah lagi doc laki wat VE. Huu) tp masa tu, dah tak tahan sakit.
Lantak la. Yg penting, nak tahu, am I ready for labour? Huu. Bila doc
wat VE, baru 3 cm? ya ALLAH, sakit macam nih, baru 3 cm? huu. Nurse
kata, cukup 4 cm baru diorang biasanya tolak masuk labour room.
Waa..nangis lagi. Sakit nih. Camne nak tahan sampai 4cm?? huk2. Then,
doc kata, kite bagi ubat tahan sakit ye? Sbb awk lum ready lagi nak
labour nih. Huu. Mama dah xkisah la. Dah tak boleh nak fikir nih.
Huk2. Lepas inject, mama berjalan ke katil. Mak abah and en. Suami
balik sbb abes waktu melawat. Ape2, dia pesan suruh call. Sbb mama
blum ready lg nak bersalin. Makan pn tak petang tuh. Mama nk rehat je.
Huk2. Then, mama tido. Agaknya diorang bagi pethidine kot. Sbb tu la
skali mengantuk. Bila mama sedar, rasa sakit masih ada, tp tak mcm
petang tadi.

Specialist buat round, dalam kul 8 camtu, slumber je dia ckp kat mama
" ok, awak rehat2 la dlu ye? Banyak2 minum air, kumpul tenaga. Sakit
ye? Nanti kalau sakit sangat, sampai berpeluh, dah bukak besar la
jalan awak tu. Time tu, bgtau kat kite ye?" aduh! Slumber je..of coz
la..sure dah beratus2 dia tgk org beranak. Apela mama nih..hahahaha.
okay, nanti sambung in labour part 2 ye? ^_^

Susu OH susu!

Arini bekalkan susu ebm utk irdina sangat and superr sikit.aduhai..merundum plak bekalan susu mama ni.sure sbb 'rajin' sgt mengepam susu masa g krusus kt kl baru nih.ishk3..
Kena rajin balik nih.positif2! Mesti boleh dpt balik bekalan yg sepatutnya...chaiyook mama!

Injet!

Arini mama cuti.teman anak mama g followup 5bln.kena inject arini.kesian anak mama.tp irdjna hebat.lpas inject,nangis kejap.pastu berenti..cayang dia..

On the way back

gambar irdina

mama duk post blog guna email. bila cek2, rupanya takda gambar si budak comot irdina tuh..so, mama post skali lg la kat sni..harap2 keluar la. ngee.

si comot irdina..hee 

JoKeSss

Dok browse2 email lama..jumpe email lawak nih.. which somehow it;s
true..hehe. enjoy!

Dear IT Support,

Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a slow
down in the overall performance, particularly in the flower, gifts and
jewellery applications that had operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0.

In addition, Husband 1.0 un-installed many other valuable programs, such as
Romance 9.5 and Personal Attention 6.5, but installed undesirable programs
such as Formula One 5.0, NBA 3.0 and World Cup 2.0.

And now Conversation 8.0 no longer runs and House Cleaning 2.6 simply
crashes the system.
I've tried running Nagging 5.3 to fix these problems, but to no avail.

What can I do?

Signed,
Desperate Housewife

Reply:

Dear Desperate Housewife,

First keep in mind:

Boyfriend 5.0 is an entertainment package, while Husband 1.0 is an operating
system.

Try entering the command C:\ I THOUGHT YOU LOVED ME and download Tears
6.2 to install Guilt 3.0 ..

If all works as designed, Husband 1.0 should then automatically run the
applications Jewellery 2.0 and Flowers 3.5.

But remember, overuse can cause Husband 1.0 to default to Grumpy Silence
2.5, Happy Hour 7.0 or Late Night Teh Tarik 6.1.

Late Night 6.1 is a very bad program that will create SnoringLoudly. wav
files.

Whatever you do, DO NOT install Mother-in-Law 1.0 or reinstall another
Boyfriend program. These are not supported applications and will crash
Husband 1.0.

In summary, Husband 1.0 is a great program, but it does have a limited
memory and cannot learn new applications quickly.

You might consider additional software to improve memory and performance. I
personally recommend Hot Tasty Food 3.0 and Tongkat Ali 6.9.

Good Luck,
IT Support

Irdina’s 1st meal

Patutnya mama tunggu irdina 6 bulan baru start bg makan (as suggest by peads and banyak makanan pun untuk baby 6mth and above). Then mama tgk, irdina ni ada tanda2 perlu bagi makan awal such as:

1)  1)      Loss of tongue-thrust reflex

2)   2)   Ability to let you know she is full from a "meal" with signs such as turning away from the bottle or breast.  This is important so that baby is able to self-regulate the amount of food being eaten.

3)     3) Put on interest towards food (ni dah lama dah, kalau kitorang makan, mesti dia tgk macam nak makan gak..ishk3)

Then, this 1 day, irdina tak mo susu, tak mo tido..duk ngamuk2 je..pastu mama realize dia start laga2 dia punya gusi..aik? tak sakit ke? Mama bagi teether, takda plak dia nak gigit2..ishk3 anak  mama nan sorang nih.. mama pun bercite la kat kakak-kakak kat opis yg mmg sedia ada pengalaman menjaga anak ni. Sume kata irdina nak tumbuh gigi, and irdina dah start minta makan. Eh?? Betul ke? Irdina nak baru nak masuk 5 bulan time tuh..hurm. mama rujuk pulak kat mak tok.mak tok mmg lagi la kata irdina mmg minta makan..hahaha. so mama pun start la google resepi.

 

So, 1^st meal irdina is pisang yang dah blend. Mula2 mama lenyek2 je..pastu abah irdina kata, apa susah, blender jela. Bila kami try kat irdina, tau x yg mana satu pilihan hati irdina? Yg di blender oleh abah dia? Cehh..penat mama lenyek2. Hahaha. Esok blend jelah. Habis…Hee. Poo poo pun banyak..hahahaha.

Pas 3 ari, mama try bg pumpkin plak kat irdina.. seronok tgk dia makan..tp sampai sekarang, takda pun tumbuh giginye..hmmm???

 

tgk la dia makan. Sampai comot2..time nih, sibuk nak pegang kamera mama

nasi LeMaK

huarghh.. rindu kat nasi lemak kak ani..baru 2 ari kak ani g vietnam. nasi lemak kak ani ni (dia tlg jual je, bkn dia wat pun..hehe), wlaupun takda la sesedap mana, tapi bila lapar pagi2 nih, ada gak benda nk makan. pagi tadi sarapan roti je..tak sempat nak sarapan lain..haish! bersyukurla dapat jugak makan..

apa2 pun, seriously, rindu nasi lemak kak ani. yg ikan bilis punya ye..bukan ikan. hee =D

Muhasabah Diri

~article that asfa share with me~

asfa: Below is an article that I enjoy reading so much. There are a lot more at www.suhaibwebb.com. Hope you enjoy it as much as I do, it put me into perspective where it is actually the lesson behind. Kalau kita meletakkan hati kita pada tempat yang betul, hal-hal yg lain takkan menjejaskan kita walau sikit pun, insyaAllah.

 

By: Yasmin Mogahed

 

When I was 17 years old, I had a dream. I dreamt that I was sitting inside a masjid and a little girl walked up to ask me a question. She asked me: "Why do people have to leave each other?" The question was a personal one, but it seemed clear to me why the question was chosen for me.

I was one to get attached.

 

Ever since I was a child, this temperament was clear. While other children in preschool could easily recover once their parents left, I could not. My tears, once set in motion, did not stop easily. As I grew up, I learned to become attached to everything around me. From the time I was in first grade, I needed a best friend. As I got older, any fall-out with a friend shattered me. I couldn't let go of anything. People, places, events, photographs, moments—even outcomes became objects of strong attachment. If things didn't work out the way I wanted or imagined they should, I was devastated. And disappointment for me wasn't an ordinary emotion. It was catastrophic. Once let down, I never fully recovered. I could never forget, and the break never mended. Like a glass vase that you place on the edge of a table, once broken, the pieces never quite fit again.

 

But the problem wasn't with the vase. Or even that the vases kept breaking. The problem was that I kept putting them on the edge of tables. Through my attachments, I was dependent on my relationships to fulfill my needs. I allowed those relationships to define my happiness or my sadness, my fulfillment or my emptiness, my security, and even my self-worth. And so, like the vase placed where it will inevitably fall, through those dependencies I set myself up for disappointment. I set myself up to be broken. And that's exactly what I found: one disappointment, one break after another.

 

But the people who broke me were not to blame any more than gravity can be blamed for breaking the vase. We can't blame the laws of physics when a twig snaps because we leaned on it for support. The twig was never created to carry us. Our weight was only meant to be carried by God. We are told in the Quran: "…whoever rejects evil and believes in God hath grasped the most trustworthy hand-hold, that never breaks. And God hears and knows all things." (Qur'an 2: 256)

 

There is a crucial lesson in this verse: that there is only one handhold that never breaks. There is only one place where we can lay our dependencies. There is only one relationship that should define our self-worth and only one source from which to seek our ultimate happiness, fulfillment, and security. That place is God.

But this world is all about seeking those things everywhere else. Some of us seek it in our careers, some seek it in wealth, some in status. Some, like me, seek it in our relationships. In her book, Eat, Pray, Love, Elizabeth Gilbert describes her own quest for happiness. She describes moving in and out of relationships, and even traveling the globe in search of this fulfillment. She seeks that fulfillment—unsuccessfully—in her relationships, in meditation, even in food.

 

And that's exactly where I spent much of my own life: seeking a way to fill my inner void. So it was no wonder that the little girl in my dream asked me this question. It was a question about loss, about disappointment. It was a question about being let down. A question about seeking something and coming back empty handed. It was about what happens when you try to dig in concrete with your bare hands: not only do you come back with nothing—you break your fingers in the process. And I learned this not by reading it, not by hearing it from a wise sage. I learned it by trying it again, and again, and again.

And so, the little girl's question was essentially my own question…being asked to myself.

 

Ultimately, the question was about the nature of the dunya as a place of fleeting moments and temporary attachments. As a place where people are with you today, and leave or die tomorrow. But this reality hurts our very being because it goes against our nature. We, as humans, are made to seek, love, and strive for what is perfect and what is permanent. We are made to seek what's eternal. We seek this because we were not made for this life. Our first and true home was Paradise: a land that is both perfect and eternal. So the yearning for that type of life is a part of our being. The problem is that we try to find that here. And so we create ageless creams and cosmetic surgery in a desperate attempt to hold on—in an attempt to mold this world into what it is not, and will never be.

 

And that's why if we live in dunya with our hearts, it breaks us. That's why this dunya hurts. It is because the definition of dunya, as something temporary and imperfect, goes against everything we are made to yearn for. Allah put a yearning in us that can only be fulfilled by what is eternal and perfect. By trying to find fulfillment in what is fleeting, we are running after a hologram…a mirage. We are digging into concrete with our bare hands. Seeking to turn what is by its very nature temporary into something eternal is like trying to extract from fire, water.  You just get burned. Only when we stop putting our hopes in dunya, only when we stop trying to make the dunya into what it is not—and was never meant to be (jannah)—will this life finally stop breaking our hearts.

 

We must also realize that nothing happens without a purpose. Nothing. Not even broken hearts. Not even pain. That broken heart and that pain are lessons and signs for us. They are warnings that something is wrong. They are warnings that we need to make a change. Just like the pain of being burned is what warns us to remove our hand from the fire, emotional pain warns us that we need to make an internal change. That we need to detach. Pain is a form of forced detachment. Like the loved one who hurts you again and again and again, the more dunya hurts us, the more we inevitably detach from it. The more we inevitably stop loving it.

 

And pain is a pointer to our attachments. That which makes us cry, that which causes us most pain is where our false attachments lie. And it is those things which we are attached to as we should only be attached to Allah which become barriers on our path to God. But the pain itself is what makes the false attachment evident. The pain creates a condition in our life that we seek to change, and if there is anything about our condition that we don't like, there is a divine formula to change it. God says: "Verily never will God change the condition of a people until they change what is within themselves." (Qur'an, 13:11)

After years of falling into the same pattern of disappointments and heartbreak, I finally began to realize something profound. I had always thought that love of dunya meant being attached to material things. And I was not attached to material things. I was attached to people. I was attached to moments. I was attached to emotions. So I thought that the love of dunya just did not apply to me. What I didn't realize was that people, moments, emotions are all a part of dunya. What I didn't realize is that all the pain I had experienced in life was due to one thing, and one thing only: love of dunya.

 

As soon as I began to have that realization, a veil was lifted from my eyes. I started to see what my problem was. I was expecting this life to be what it is not, and was never meant to be: perfect. And being the idealist that I am, I was struggling with every cell in my body to make it so. It had to be perfect. And I would not stop until it was. I gave my blood, sweat, and tears to this endeavor: making the dunya into jannah. This meant expecting people around me to be perfect. Expecting my relationships to be perfect. Expecting so much from those around me and from this life. Expectations. Expectations. Expectations. And if there is one recipe for unhappiness it is that: expectations. But herein lay my fatal mistake. My mistake was not in having expectations; as humans, we should never lose hope. The problem was in *where* I was placing those expectations and that hope. At the end of the day, my hope and expectations were not being placed in God. My hope and expectations were in people, relationships, means. Ultimately, my hope was in this dunya rather than Allah.

 

And so I came to realize a very deep Truth. An ayah began to cross my mind. It was an ayah I had heard before, but for the first time I realized that it was actually describing me:  "Those who rest not their hope on their meeting with Us, but are pleased and satisfied with the life of the present, and those who heed not Our Signs." (Qur'an, 10:7). By thinking that I can have everything here, my hope was not in my meeting with God. My hope was in dunya. But what does it mean to place your hope in dunya? How can this be avoided? It means when you have friends, don't expect your friends to fill your emptiness. When you get married, don't expect your spouse to fulfill your every need. When you're an activist, don't put your hope in the results. When you're in trouble don't depend on yourself. Don't depend on people. Depend on God.

 

Seek the help of people—but realize that it is not the people (or even your own self) that can save you. Only Allah can do these things. The people are only tools, a means used by God. But they are not the source of help, aid, or salvation of any kind. Only God is. The people cannot even create the wing of a fly (22:73).  And so, even while you interact with people externally, turn your heart towards God. Face Him alone, as Prophet Ibrahim (as) said so beautifully: "For me, I have set my face, firmly and truly, towards Him Who created the heavens and the earth, and never shall I give partners to Allah." (Qur'an, 6:79)

But how does Prophet Ibrahim (as) describe his journey to that point? He studies the moon, the sun and the stars and realizes that they are not perfect. They set.

They let us down.

 

So Prophet Ibrahim (as) was thereby led to face Allah alone. Like him, we need to put our full hope, trust, and dependency on God. And God alone. And if we do that, we will learn what it means to finally find peace and stability of heart. Only then will the roller coaster that once defined our lives finally come to an end. That is because if our inner state is dependent on something that is by definition inconstant, that inner state will also be inconstant. If our inner state is dependent on something changing and temporary, that inner state will be in a constant state of instability, agitation, and unrest. This means that one moment we're happy, but as soon as that which our happiness depended upon changes, our happiness also changes. And we become sad. We remain always swinging from one extreme to another and not realizing why.

 

We experience this emotional roller coaster because we can never find stability and lasting peace until our attachment and dependency is on what is stable and lasting. How can we hope to find constancy if what we hold on to is inconstant and perishing? In the statement of Abu Bakr is a deep illustration of this truth. After the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ died, the people went into shock and could not handle the news. But although no one loved the Prophet ﷺ like Abu Bakr, Abu Bakr understood well the only place where one's dependency should lie. He said: "If you worshipped Muhammad, know that Muhammad is dead. But if you worshipped Allah, know that Allah never dies."

To attain that state, don't let your source of fulfillment be anything other than your relationship with God. Don't let your definition of success, failure, or self-worth be anything other than your position with Him (Qur'an, 49:13). And if you do this, you become unbreakable, because your handhold is unbreakable. You become unconquerable, because your supporter can never be conquered. And you will never become empty, because your source of fulfillment is unending and never diminishes.

 

Looking back at the dream I had when I was 17, I wonder if that little girl was me. I wonder this because the answer I gave her was a lesson I would need to spend the next painful years of my life learning. My answer to her question of why people have to leave each other was: "because this life isn't perfect; for if it was, what would the next be called?"

feeding time!

 patutnya dah lama dah post benda nih: huk2. now irdina dah makan pun, bila mama ada masa nk memasak (mcm memasak sgt lar.. =p) 1st meal, banana yg dah diblender..ngee =D

irdina nak masuk 5 bulan hujung bulan 3 nih, mama da excited nk bagi irdina feeding her first meal. so, sekarang dok cari-cari simple first food recipe utk irdina nanti. awal lagi ke? hmm..tak lah. bleh start kumpul resepi. then, bleh try and bagi kat irdina..hehehe. excited! mama yg over excited.hee =p

Other first food ideas (no cooking)


When choosing fruits, make sure they are ripe as they are sweeter and easier to mash. Introduce citrus fruits after baby turns one and not earlier because of the acid content. Papaya, melon, kiwi, mango, peaches, nectarines are some other fruits your baby can have but they should be really ripe to prevent the occasional sour taste or worse still, a tummy upset. For some fruits, they have to be cored and the peel removed before pureeing to prevent pits. Fruits are a very good source of vitamins and fiber. Other bright ideas you may want to try including banana-nectarine puree, kiwi-mango-banana puree, melon-papaya puree etc.


Note: An important consideration to take into account when preparing this category of foods is ensure these purees are prepared just before your baby is ready to eat.

banyak lagi kena study ni. so, by the time irdina bleh start makan, bleh lah mama apply knowledge yg ada. ececehh.

happy feeding irdina mama..hehe =)

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